|Sexual gratification & Sexual attraction|
|Articles - Relationships|
|Written by AnJ|
|Monday, 28 July 2008 00:00|
“She just turned straight.”
I think it’s high time we differentiate sexual gratification from sexual attraction. With all the muddle over sexual orientation and its pervasive inaccurate conclusions, surely we need to know what we really mean when we use words like “gay” and “straight”?
In the “ideal” world, people get attached to those they find physically attracted to. In the “ideal” world, people are sexually satisfied/gratified with someone they find physically attractive. Very ideal… But it doesn’t always happen that way.
Sexual gratification… is just a fulfillment of your sex drive.
No one has ever come up with a sexual orientation for those who have sex with toys. Like, “oh, you sleep with your toys? You are toy-sexual” or “touching yourself makes you narcissist-sexual”.
So why is it that a woman who slept with a man is labeled “straight” automatically?
What if she’s just “using” him/her for sexual gratification?
I think lots of people just settle for sexual gratification.
Maybe that’s one of the reasons why people make love in the dark.
Maybe some people are not bi-curious or exploring their sexual orientation. Perhaps they are just interested in a wide array of sexual gratification methods/activities…
|Last Updated on Thursday, 25 February 2010 17:33|